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May 2021 Counting Cards Dare
Counting cards will get you thrown out of a casino, but your husband won’t throw you out of bed for counting Christian-friendly sex position cards for May’s Dare! You could even win a prize in our May 2021 contest for counting the highest!
Supplies: Deck of Christian-friendly Sex Position Cards (available from Christian-friendly sex toy store MarriedDance.com as a downloadable printable or an actual deck of cards), pink lingerie, smartphone, lubricant, wedge sex pillow (optional) BONUS: Use the discount code DRJENNIFER for 10% off your order at MarriedDance.com.
1) Start by checking out the Christian-friendly sex positions available for free here. Their sex poses and sensual tips are illustrated and described in a tasteful, God-honoring, marriage-focused manner. The sex position pictures include illustrated stick figures (the wife is a pink stick figure and the husband is a blue-gray stick figure) instead of real people, and the pose descriptions clearly describe how to get into and perform the position.
Married Dance (we are an affiliate of this Christian-friendly sex store online) makes this free online resource available to couples, and best of all, they’ve created a deck of 52 sex position cards! They come in a blank box, so no one will know what’s inside, and each card includes a QR code that points your smartphone to their webpage containing a detailed description of the position. You can also order a downloadable printable of over 220 position cards here. (Use the discount code DRJENNIFER for 10% off your order.) Or you can just access the positions online here, but having printed cards makes this Dare especially fun!
2) Dress in pink lingerie to match the female figure on the cards. We found this sexy and soft babydoll lingerie on Amazon for only $17.99 that is the exact shade of pink, plus it comes in sizes Small to 4X.
3) Have your smartphone handy for scanning the QR codes and for playing the Sexy Slow Jams Without Profanity Playlist we created for this Dare on the CWIVES Spotify channel.
4) Hand your husband the deck of sex position cards and ask him if he wants to count cards with you. He’s going to say yes when he sees you in your hot pink lingerie! If you want him to match the cards as well, give him a pair of blue gray underwear like these we found on Amazon, SAXX Men’s Sports Mesh Boxer Briefs 2-Pack in Navy/City Blue, or if your husband prefers a more relaxed fit, check out the SAXX Ultra Boxer briefs in Gray. SAXX are premium men’s underwear, and once your guy tries them, he will be hooked! 
5) Take turns drawing a card from the deck or choosing a position off the website, scan the QR code for details, and give the intercourse position a try. If you’re looking for oral sex positions, you can find them on their website here and here.
6) There are 2 ways to win in our May contest: First, count up how many positions you try in one sexual encounter. Second, count up how many total positions you try from May 1st to Sunday, May 23, 2021. Email us your two position totals to dareofthemonth@cwives.com by Monday, May 24, 2021, and if you have the highest number of positions in either category, we will mail you a prize! We will announce the two winning couples (identified by first initials only) in our June newsletter.
7) You’re likely to need lubricant when you try a series of positions. We recommend Aloe Cadabra Organic 2-in-1 Lubricant & Vaginal Moisturizer because it’s 95% aloe vera, contains no harmful chemicals or additives, and is designed to mimic the mucosity of your body’s natural state in your 20’s. It comes plain, but the flavored ones actually taste good. Here’s a Bundle of 3 tubes in Strawberry, Orange Cream, and Key Lime Pie from Amazon.
8) Some positions suggest using a wedge sex pillow like this one. You can read this Married Dance article explaining the use of sex pillows, and here’s a post from Hot, Holy, and Humorous about her experience with using one (read the comments section too for more people’s experiences). These pillows are pricey but are durable, have washable covers, and will add new zing to even your tried-and-true sex positions! Don’t forget to use the discount code DRJENNIFER for 10% off your order at MarriedDance.com.
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